As I Please
Tribune, 26 May 1944
I was talking the other day to a young American soldier,
who told me – as quite a number of others have done – that anti-British
feeling is completely general in the American army. He had only recently
landed in this country, and as he came off the boat he asked the Military
Policeman on the dock, ‘How’s England?’
‘The girls here walk out with niggers,’ answered the M.P. ‘They call them American Indians.’
That was the salient fact about England, from the M.P.’s point of view. At the same time my friend told me that anti-British feeling is not violent and there is no very clearly-defined cause of complaint. A good deal of it is probably a rationalization of the discomfort most people feel at being away from home. But the whole subject of anti-British feeling in the United States badly needs investigation. Like antisemitism, it is given a whole series of contradictory explanations, and again like antisemitism, it is probably a psychological substitute for something else. What else is the question that needs investigating.
Meanwhile, there is one department of Anglo-American relations that seems to be going well. It was announced some months ago that no less than 20,000 English girls had already married American soldiers and sailors, and the number will have increased since. Some of these girls are being educated for their life in a new country at the ‘Schools for Brides of U.S. Servicemen’ organized by the American Red Cross. Here they are taught practical details about American manners, customs and traditions – and also, perhaps, cured of the widespread illusion that every American owns a motor car and every American house contains a bathroom, a refrigerator and an electric washing-machine.
The May number of the Matrimonial Post and Fashionable Marriage Advertiser contains advertisements from 191 men seeking brides and over 200 women seeking husbands. Advertisements of this type have been running in a whole series of magazines since the sixties or earlier, and they are nearly always very much alike. For example:
Bachelor, age 25, height 6 ft 1 in., slim, fond of horticulture, animals, children, cinema, etc., would like to meet lady, age 27 to 35, with love of flowers, nature, children, must be tall, medium build, Church of England.
The general run of them are just like that, though occasionally a more unusual note is struck. For instance:
I’m 29, single, 5 ft 10 in., English, large build, kind, quiet, varied intellectual interests, firm moral background (registered unconditionally as absolute CO), progressive, creative, literary inclinations. A dealer in rare stamps, income variable but quite adequate. Strong swimmer, cyclist, slight stammer occasionally. Looking for the following rarity, amiable, adaptable, educated girl, easy on eye and ear, under 30, secretary type or similar, mentally adventurous, immune to mercenary and social incentives, bright sense of genuine humour, a reliable working partner. Capital unimportant, character vital.
The thing that is and always has been striking in
these advertisements is that nearly all the applicants are remarkably
eligible. It is not only that most of them are broad-minded, intelligent,
home-loving, musical, loyal, sincere and affectionate, with a keen sense of
humour and, in the case of women, a good figure: in the majority of cases
they are financially OK as well. When you consider how fatally easy it is to
get married, you would not imagine that a 36-year-old bachelor, ‘dark hair,
fair complexion, slim build, height 6 ft, well educated and of considerate,
jolly and intelligent disposition, income £1,000 per annum and capital’,
would need to find himself a bride through the columns of a newspaper. And
ditto with ‘Adventurous young woman, left-wing opinions, modern outlook’
with ‘fairly full but shapely figure, medium colour curly hair, grey-blue
eyes, fair skin, natural colouring, health exceptionally good, interested in
music, art, literature, cinema, theatre, fond of walking, cycling, tennis,
skating and rowing’. Why does such a paragon have to advertise?
The Estate of Eric Blair
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